Okay...so I've liked this guy since 3RD GRADE and now we're in 9th...yesterday I emailed him telling him i liked him and then he emailed back 5 minutes ago and was like "Uhhm sorry but I don't like you that much. Sorry." It absolutly broke my heart! I AM PRACTICALLY IN LOVE HERE! what should I do to stop crying?find sumone else and get over it. you're not gonna like live your whole life with him..its just 9th gradeYou've had a fantasy relationship in your head for 6 years, so this is basically a breakup and you need to treat it as one. Grieve for the lost relationship, then open your mind to meeting other people. You'll get over him when you believe in the other possibilities.
If it helps, the real guy couldn't possibly be as great as your fantasy version of him.You should stop focusing your attention on him. Try meeting other people who knows what could happen, don't dwell over this and make yourself miserable enjoy high school!That sad truth is he dont like you back, and its true yer only in 9th grade, im a junior i had that kinda problem, you just gotta find some1 elsei know its heartbreaking. iv been heart broken b4 and i got over it! now i am with some1 and i like him better than my previouse crushok, you can tell me or anybody else what ever the eff you want, but it really isn't gonna help anything. YOU'RE IN THE NINTH F#CKING GRADE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There has to be at least one other person for you. The fact of the matter is that you shouldn't have had such strong feelings and kept them to yourself for so long. If you had said something sooner, than you could have saved your self this whole ordeal. But you didn't, so you're gonna have to just take it for what it is and forget about him. And don't say you love him, because that is BULLSH!T!!!! You don't know what love is, this is just the only guy you have ever LIKED. Get it LIKED, not LOVED. Just move on and find someone else. And the quicker you move on, the better off you'll be. This guy's told you how he feels, so just accept it and go with it.just know, you're only in 9th grade.
other guys willl come & go,
life always has its ways :D
it can only get bettter.aw dont worry everyone gos through that experience. all you can do is move on. if you have a journal try writing out your feelings or write on anything. dont eat, trust me it just makes you feel worse. call a friend or go on msn and just talk. surround yourself with friends! go for a walk or listen to your favourite music.
we all go through it sometimes :)
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