How old were you when you went out on your first date, and did your parents approve?
When I was 17 I was seriously in love and my parents found out and made a big scandal out of itâ ¦ they even involved the guys family.
So his family was exactly as stubborn and old fashioned than mine and they quickly found a girl to get married with him⠦ and he firstly said he won´t and that we will go away together⠦ but well, I guess the sensation was too big for him: They gave him a proper house, new car and what else do I know⠦ I always felt that he sold himself⠦ and after a time I thought that it was better that way, as it seems to be his real character and he probably would have sold me for less⠦
I got engaged with somebody who I did not like or dislike... but I decided to play the game and accepted everything. So my parents allowed me to date this guy and go out to restaurants, movies and even to danceâ ¦
I had a plan and my plan was to convince everybody to let me finish my studies abroad. And I did.
But I did not come back for marriage, I stayed first in USA, then in UK and after that I went to Germany and later to Spain.
Of course I had various boy friends and several times I broke some guys heart and some guys broke mineâ ¦ but this is normal stuff.
I found somebody to love and got married.
My family freaked out, but in the end most of them came over to my wedding and in the end they had to accept my decision and now we don´t have any problems anymore.
That´s my story regarding dating and my parents⠦
I've been trying to make up the lost time ever since.
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