How can i make it clear that i'm done?

I've known this guy for 7 years.And the past 2 years he's been in and out of relationships that usally only last for 1-3 months.

He's always mean to me,and treats me like **** when he's got a girlfriend,but when they break up,he comes to me and trys to be all nice,and tells me he likes me,and that it won't happen again.

Then he trys to get some,And i SOOOO sick of it:(

What do i say to him next time he comes over with his buds to try and hangout with me?

I have feeling for him,but i want to completly get over him:(

thanks.

I just answered your other question and if you are done then just say it! don't be nice, don't give in, just say it and be done! don't take this crap from him, you don't deserve this, just say it and mean it!

its very simple unless you alone make it difficult. you need to talk to him one on one and face to face and not on the internet, telephone etc. and tell him nicely with noooooooooo open doors that you want nothing to do with him or his friends and never never call you or come over and stick to this or as i say you leave the door open for his immaturity and insecuritys.

He just feel depressed after a bad relationship, just talk to him and help him feel better as a normal friend.

But also tell him that you are not into any relationship right now, try to say something that won't hurt him, even thought he was mean and treated you like crap.
Be a good friend, you may need him to help you also later on who knows.

I said this because you have known him for 7 years, thats a good long firendship.

Best of luck,
Randy

take the bud and slam the door in his face

Just tell him that your are through being used. And mean it. Don't answer his calls or talk to him. Good Luck!

Oh, sweetie...if he's treated you like crap once, and even more than once, he is NOT worth getting back with. This seems like a booty call situation when he doesn't have a girlfriend. And that "I'm sorry baby, I won't do it again" business is such a lie...do it once and get away with it, it becomes a regular thing.

But to let him know you mean business, you have got to tell him no and stick to it. There can be no in-between, like you can come over but just for a little while nothing like that. If you need to just tell him you are busy and keep telling him and maybe he will get the hint.

I would go for a full out F--- You, I don't need this crap, go find someone else to mess over conversation tho..really give it to him, isn't that how he's been doing you?? Good luck

Just refuse to have contact with him. It's that easy.

It's time to stick up for yourself, and to stop being used. Tell him
that this is the end and that you are sorry that is has to be this
way, but you are tired of being used. No doubt he will try to win
you over, but stay strong, and keep remembering that you made
this choice for you.

talk to him and say your sick of being your doormat.
and if he don't understand then say you will talk to him about it after school, meet up with him and just talk about it all :)
good luck!
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just tell him that your done being a booty call, then stick to it. Don't give in.

You need to stop talking to him period if he calls, don't answer, if he comes over don't let him come in. Tell him that your over him and move on with your life.

Its good that your realize that he isn't deserving of you before.

HONEY,,SOUNDS LIKE THE GUY IS TOATLY NOOOOOOOOO,,,GOOD FOR YOU,,,IN FACT HIS USING U,,WEN HE CANT GET PUSS,,,HE RUNS TO U,,,JUST TELL,,HIM,,,U DONT NEED HIM,,OR WANT HIM IN YOUR LIFE,,IF U DONT WANT TO FACE HIM,,SEND HIM A TEX,,,CALL HIM,,,ON THE PHONE,,HE DOESNT EVEN,,DESERVE TO SEE U FACE TO FACE,,HIS A REAL LOOSER,,AND THERE IS A GUY OUT THERE OR WILL LOVE N RESPECT YOU,,IF U GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO GO OUT THERE AND FIND HIM,,,NO,,,GUY SHOULD TREAT U LIKE HE DOSE,,,,SO,,TELL HIM,,,U HAVE A BF,,N YOUR JUST NOT INTERESTED IN HIS WAY OF LIFE,,,AND,,DONT DATE ANY OF HIS BUDDIES,,CAUSE IM SURE HE TELLS THEM,,LOTS OF LIES ABOUT YOU,,,,,FIND YOU A GOOD MAN,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,PEACE♥

You tell him to leave your not a ho your just not there for him when he needs some...tell him to go screw with another girls feelings...if you tell him that you should figure out what he is really about

dont let him hang out with you. this guy has no respect for you, and as long as you keep letting him walk all over you, hes gonna keep taking advantage of you.

go find a new group of friends, surround yourself with people who respect you. find a guy who will treat you right.

tell him you're completely and totally done with him and to get that through his head because you're done being walked all over. dont let him know you still have feeligns for him.

which is probably why he's doing it--
because he knows youll put up with is sh-t.
so you need to get it clear to him you're done.
to give in.
find someone who deserves you.

My sweet Adria,

Although you may still have feelings for this guy he obviously hasn't learnt to be a gentleman. If he gets his kicks playing around and you know he won't change then I suggest you be very straight with him and tell him it's over and he should respect your wish. If that doesn't work then you might have to get tough and tell him that he's harassing you and you may get the police involved if he doesn't stop.

Breaking up is never easy especially when you've had feelings for the guy for so long. You have to sever (cut) all ties completely as fast as possible. Be nice but firm and make him understand that your serious. Tell him, it's over, please leave me alone. He may get angry and do something stupid. Be ready to call the police if he does.

Good luck my dear!

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